Midnight in Paris

I was on the plane watching “Midnight in Paris” and one of the actors said this. and I quote: “All men fear death. It’s a natural fear that consumes us all. We fear death because we feel that we haven’t loved well enough or loved at all, which ultimately are one and the same. However, when you make love with a truly great woman, one that deserves the utmost respect in this world and one that makes you feel truly powerful, that fear of death completely disappears. Because when you are sharing your body and heart with a great woman the world fades away. You two are the only ones in the entire universe. You conquer what most lesser men have never conquered before, you have conquered a great woman’s heart, the most vulnerable thing she can offer to another. Death no longer lingers in the mind. Fear no longer clouds your heart. Only passion for living, and for loving, become your sole reality. This is no easy task for it takes insurmountable courage. But remember this, for that moment when you are making love with a woman of true greatness you will feel immortal.

I believe that love that is true and real creates a respite from death. All cowardice comes from not loving or not loving well, which is the same thing. And when the man who is brave and true looks death squarely in the face like some rhino hunters I know or Belmonte, who is truly brave, it is because they love with sufficient passion to push death out of their minds. Until it returns, as it does to all men. And then you must make really good love again. Think about it.” 

It had me thinking the whole weekend what love really is. It had me honestly pissed off and I still don’t know what it is. There are a lot, of different ways to love but to truly love is different. For right now I am an 18 year old kid who really shouldn’t be thinking about it all too much. So this week i do not share something poetic but more of a thought. Find what you love and roll with it. Yeah there is a chance that your heart will be broken probably a 99% chance. Enjoy the moment and as Billy Joel once said “dream on but don’t dream it will all come true” 

P.S. love is bull shit.